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It just happened suddenly, how do you cope when your boyfriend of 5yrs runs away with your best friend. Now the best friend is pregnant and seeking my forgiveness. Deep down it hurts so bad and i pray God give me the strength to move on.

Please i need help, should i forgive my friend or just write her off!

You may not feel that you can forgive her at this point. I understand how badly hurt you are. I've been on that situation and forgiveness will not come easy. It will take time. Just pray.

Don't forgive her! After what she did she got the nerve now to go back to you? That's insane. Whatever happened to her happened because of her and so you shouldn't have to make her problem yours too.

I think you should be thankful that this happened while you are not yet married to him. Maybe the good Lord has a better guy reserved for you. Acceptance and forgiveness will lessen the pain and help you to move on.

Forgiveness will not be easy for anybody in this situation. Move on and let time heal the wound. Pray for healing.

I think it would be best to forgive - it doesn't mean you still need to be friends but it would allow you to move on with your own life. After all, the boyfriend and the best-friend will have to live with the consequences and knowing you forgive them, it will give you a closure to start something new.

I agree. Since it happened just recently, the emotions are still fresh. At this point in time, it is hard to forgive. But you should choose to forgive. When you do this, it will be easier for you to move on. Always pray for strength and discernment. You should also be grateful that this happen when you are not yet married. Choose to forgive now, and the peace within you will follow.